Three Tips On How To Arouse A Woman Who Has Undergone The Cut

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Female circumcision is a practice that has been with most African communities for a long time. There are some communities that are still practicing it even today. The church and the media have contributed a lot to the mystification of this practice to an extent that it is now being viewed as retrogressive bordering to an act of human abuse. This has led to the coining of the name female genital mutilation which creates a picture of a savage act. What has not been talked about is the sexual satisfaction of the already circumcised woman who is in a sexual relationship such as marriage. These women have been taken for granted as objects with no feelings and normally men don't pay attention to their sexual satisfaction. This is due to the notion that they don't readily respond to any sexual stimulation due to the cut they underwent. Many believe that the cut which removed the clitoris made the woman unresponsive to sex. But this is purely wrong. The circumcised women has got feelings just like all the other women who have not undergone the cut because the greatest sexual organ is in the mind and with proper tuning they can respond to sexual stimulation normally.

As a man dating or married to a circumcised woman this is what you need to do in order to make sex an enjoyable experience for both of you.

Even though she is cut, the woman still yearns to be desired. A simple caress on some of the erogenous areas accompanied by whispered praises to the beauty or sexiness of the woman will already stimulate her. The man should be patient as the circumcised woman takes time to respond. Once the woman relaxes and is prepared she will start moving closer or holding you tightly sending the message that she is ready for it.

Show her love. Some circumcised women don't respond to sexual stimulation because they feel that they are being treated as sexual objects. Frankly, love is the best sexual stimulant. When a woman feels she is loved, she performs well in bed. She is more excited and always looks forward to having sex with her man. The man should always find ways of making the woman feel loved as this reassures her of his commitment and helps her to relax during love making. You should always reassure her that there is nothing wrong with her sexuality. A circumcised woman is always nervous about her performance. Thus some tend to shun sex.

If the woman is troubled or stressed, it is important for the man to comfort her. This will always relax and excite her sexually. A woman who is relaxed can easily be aroused. And since she has nothing to be worried about, she can easily respond passionately to her partner.

As you continually learn to arouse her you will find lovemaking enjoyable and the temptation of seeking pleasure somewhere else will diminish.

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Source by Lucas Mwirigi